People are messy, and once you’ve got some years under your belt, it’s really not all that hard to find some fault in what they say or do, in their attitudes or beliefs about things. If you pay much attention at all to someone, it’s likely that it won’t be long at all before you know better than something they’re doing, thinking, or saying. And at the moment you realize that you know better, if you’re like most people, you’re very likely to make some irrational leaps in your mind. You can easily make the unjustified mental leap from “I know better in this…” to other thoughts and attitudes such as:
- “I know better in this…therefore, I know better about everything than this person does.”
- “…therefore, I’m a better person than this person is.”
- “…therefore, I know pretty much everything, more or less, about the topic in question.”
- “…therefore, I should be a teacher of, or an authority on this topic.”
- “…therefore, we should start a new organization based on this.”