What A Dad Can Do

In the middle of a remodeling project today, I (accidentally) broke a water line, creating a gusher flowing from the wall of the bathroom underneath the sink.  Naturally, this provided fun for the whole family as we engineered a way to route the gushing water outside before it flooded the entire floor.

Somewhere in the course of the emergency management, or perhaps the aftermath thereof, Kay asked me, “How do you know how to do all this stuff?”  I asked for clarification and she mentioned carpentry, plumbing, and electrical circuits.  The answer was simple:  Dad taught me.

It sparked a conversation, as do most things in our ever-thinking family, and I recalled that even as far back as high school (where I learned most of what Dad taught me on such matters), I noticed that my peers at school had little idea how to do any of it.  Whatever their dads may have taught them, it seems that carpentry, plumbing, and circuits were not on the list.

My Dad is not nearly as active as he used to be—depending on how you look at it.  While he doesn’t get his tools out very often anymore, his son and grandson do.  Today, James used the reciprocating saw to cut some scrap lumber to manageable size.  And yesterday, he removed some wall boards with a power screwdriver.  He can change a plug on a power cord and change out a wall switch.  He has learned all these things and more from his Dad (that’s me) because I learned them from my Dad.

So my Dad, Jack-of-all-trades that he is, has replicated himself twice in my line—so far.  And that’s what a Dad can do.

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An Important Note to All My (Real) Readers

Dear Readers,

I have been attacked by computerized spam registrations on my blog site (jackpelham.com).  I have over 1,500 registered users who are not real people.   Therefore, I am about to purge my users list.

This means that those of you who have been receiving email notifications of new posts will no longer receive them.  But not to worry; you can register again on my blog to receive notifications of new posts.  And when (if) you do, you’ll see a new security feature that makes it really difficult for computers to register.

I’m sorry for your inconvenience, but I have no way to sort through all the registered users to tell which email addresses are spammers and which are legit.

As soon as this post has published, I will delete all subscribers.

Happy New Year!

Jack

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Seven Good Moves I Made in 2013

In a gratuitous attempt at positive thinking, I thought it would be useful (to me) to document a few of my 2013 activities that turned out to be good ones.  So, without further adieu, here is a list, in no particular order, of 2013 activities that I generally consider improvements upon my life.

1.  From the Ground Up!  I changed the style of shoes I wear and it has made a huge difference.  I now believe that we have been duped into thinking that we need “arch Continue reading

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Merrily Posteth the Fool!

Here’s one of the best Shakespeare quotations ever!  And my, how it applies to our modern hearsay/Facebook culture!

“Merrily posteth the Fool, yet vetteth not, that which he wast but told I had said.”
Shakespeare
~ Twelfth Night, Act II, Scene 1

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Fire Is Our Friend

There is, to me, no house so cold as one that needs no fireplace.  The building and tending of fire has become for me such a primal instinct as to leave me feeling incomplete when it is not needed.  In my unapologetic opinion, one might as well build a house without inhabitants in mind as to build one without a fireplace in mind.

This fireplace is all I need.  And a dog. Continue reading

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The Sole Reform Fallacy

I have coined the term Sole Reform Fallacy (or Sole Remedy Fallacy) to name a cognitive error I have seen frequently in play with regard to politics and religion.  Here is its definition.

Sole Reform Fallacy—the error of judgment by which a proposed act of reform that is both needful and useful is shunned because it alone will not solve the entirety of what is perceived to be wrong.

Here are three examples of this cognitive error in play. Continue reading

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Writing for a Global Audience

The following article was written with these goals in mind:

  • To be readily understood by all.
  • To be offensive to no one.
  • To be considered relevant and timely to all.
  • To spur everyone on while discouraging no one. Continue reading
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My Favorite Movies and Why

This list is a work in progress.  In no particular order (at this time):

Phenomenon
George Malley (John Travolta) mysteriously finds himself with new mental energy for Type 2 cognitive processes.  He realizes many of his previous cognitive errors, invents many things, comes up with loads of questions, and has an insatiable curiosity.  The community in which he lives find all this to be freakish. Continue reading

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Over a Thousand Funerals

Ralph:  You know, they say that Brother Billy is really popular.  He has preached over a thousand funerals in this county!

Dale:  That guy’s not really that popular; I think his reputation comes mostly from poor communication. Continue reading

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On the Folly of Specialism

So where did we ever come up with the idea that the ideal achievement in knowledge is to become a specialist?

A generalist knows how a thousand things fit together, but the typical specialist knows only his particular specialty, and has little clue how it works with the rest of the world. Who in his right mind would want to be like that? Continue reading

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